Last night me and Elvi went to Nirma’s house (our BFF from childhood) to attend her engagement held with very simple because everything was improvised but very solemn. Her fiance is a man who came from the Bangka island. Maybe this is called soul mate (hopefully they are really made for each other) met at the unexpected moment. Soulmate certainly cannot be planned and specified especially when it would come. Many dating relationship for years but have not even dropped began plans to establish a domestic life. There had never met before, so direct encounter boldly decided to give appointment as lively as dead as a married couple.
Like our friend. Intend to Bangka island to attend a family wedding precisely met the man who had not previously been known to her but (hopefully) will be her husband, who will be leaders in her life. A very short introduction. Not to mention the vast distances that must be taken by both. If they are really made for each other (because they are not legally be husband and wife), they would be a true testament to the famous saying of Indonesia: sour in the mountains, salt in the sea; meet in a single pot. If mating, it won’t go anywhere.I will not tell much about this engagement. Wait until they actually have legally become husband and wife.
Talking about mate, I thought about my father who wanted to plan my brother to get married soon. My mom interested in a girl (her friend’s daughter) to be her daughter-in-law. But she was reluctant to reveal what she thought to her friend because her daughter is having a good settled job. Until some time ago, my mother’s friend was holding an event at her house because of a man proposing to his daughter. That's where all was revealed. Turned out my mother's friend hoped to marry her daughter with my brother even asked her opinion about it. But she cried and said she worried my brother would not want to marry her.
Mate is really in God's hands. So even though we would have to try to get it.
the engaged woman and Evi..
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